Which is fine, because the bear community is not necessarily for everyone. If you happen to like the guys, physically, and some of the guys for who they are, and not how they identify...
I feel the same way. In a way, I'm sick of the whole "bear" thing and what it means you're supposed to be just becuase of body hair. I just want to be me, not what someone expects me to be based on a gay subculture generality.
(I tried to post this this morning but my connection was totally flaked out. :( )
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I like you for who you are, that's all that matters for me.
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Date: 2003-06-04 06:00 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-06-04 06:10 am (UTC)its all too complicated
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Date: 2003-06-04 05:08 pm (UTC)(I tried to post this this morning but my connection was totally flaked out. :( )