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[clintswan]

so apparently i am too much a bar person for said guy

i understand his POV

but figure this

i didn't get to have fun for the first 19 years of my life

i'm just making up for lost time

Comments

[michaelnolan.livejournal.com]

his POV may just be that the bar isn't fun to him. It sounds like a difference of opinion to me.

[razzman.livejournal.com]

arg - I never did much clubs either.

Enjoy going out mate....be happy. He can always be there when you come home ;)

[wldcatxx.livejournal.com]

only thing that counts is making yourself happy

[gadzukes.livejournal.com]

hope said guy hasn't stopped seeing you for that reason. If he has, run far away cuz he's choc-full-of-issues that one.

[bigrock.livejournal.com]

ditto!

[chrisglass.livejournal.com]

I third that motion.

[campn.livejournal.com]

Oh, fuck 'em then... some of my best friends are bars;)

[campn.livejournal.com]

Err... my redneck, smartass mouth tends to engage before my brain this early in the morning. If said man was important to ya, apologies for my flipant words above. If he wasn't, then I'll let my smartass words stand*smirk*

[tbone1961.livejournal.com]

he's gotta be able to accept you for who are, where you are, etc. Sounds like an issue of compromise. If he's not willing to give and take on this or others issues for that matter, time to reexamine perhaps.

[beeftenderloin.livejournal.com]

I have that exact mindest as you, but mine was 27 years! If I don't do it now while I'm realitively still intact I'll be regretful. So whoop it up boy!

[six10steve.livejournal.com]

Have at it! Nothing wrong with being social. :-}

[guysterrules.livejournal.com]

What's a "bar person"? Someone who likes to go out and socialize? Have at it, bro.

[bearringsd.livejournal.com]

Howdy handsome! I haven't commented in your journal for a while but I read it all the time.

I'm glad to see ya out and about. :-)

That whole "you are too much of a bar person" is what I would have, in the past, told someone I wasn't really into because I didn't have the balls to be honest and speak truthfully.

Eventually I grew out of that phase and so should this guy.

You deserve better. :-)

[stereobare.livejournal.com]

Ya hear about the two girls who ran into a bar? Ya would have thought the 2nd one would have ducked.

Ok now, we know his opinion on this. What is your's?

Besides, where else can you go, have a party and not have to clean up the place in the monring?